Regulation Strategies Overview
If you know that you’re nervous system is very dysregulated or out of whack, I recommend you start your healing with a professional — whether that be a licensed mental health practitioner, licensed massage therapist, or somatic practitioner. You can most definitely heal your nervous system on your own (the body can heal what it creates), but sometimes our system is so overwhelmed, that a calming, guiding presence can be necessary to kick start the healing.
If you are already in treatment, or have been previously, and are looking for some more ideas to regulate your nervous system — this guide is for you!
I have learned the regulation strategies below from a variety of healers, including but not limited to, psychologists, social workers, massage therapists, somatic practitioners, acupuncturists, and physical therapists. They are somatic exercises because they involve your body. They also all have the capability to help you better tolerate emotions and/or help you move through difficult emotions. The only way to figure out which techniques work for you is to try them! The exercises will feel different for every body, so always listen closely to you body to find out what feels nice and what might feel like too much. Obviously you can always try any of the exercises listed for any emotions, but the categories are just what I have found work for me and for clients!
If you don’t recognize one of the exercises listed but are interested in trying it, check out my other guides for each of the categories. If you still have any questions about the strategies, please do not hesitate to contact me, even if you aren’t a current client.
Somatic Strategies for Anxiety & Overwhelm
Breathing
Box Breathing
Breath Counting
Finger Breathing
Belly Breathing
Alternate Nostril Breathing
Grounding
Guided Meditation
5 Senses
Categories Game
Body Scan
Temperature Shift
Intensive Exercise
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
“Earthing”
Vagus Nerve Stimulation
Dancing
Tapping
Singing
Humming
Aromatherapy
Other
Weight lifting
Pulling/rowing
Biking
Swimming
Running
Walking
Stretching
Somatic Strategies for Anger
Breathing
Lion’s Breath
Loud Sighing
Grounding
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
Vagus Nerve Stimulation
Knead dough, playdough, clay, or Arodough
Other
Scream (aloud, in pillow)
Slowly move face in and out of scream face
Destroy something
Intensive Exercise
Snap branches
Tear paper
Punch air
Somatic Shaking
Push up against a wall — hard
Wall sit while clenching and unclenching your fists
Play catch
Somatic Strategies for Depression & Grief
Grounding
Body Scan
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
Vagus Nerve Stimulation
Bear hug (self, from other)
Sit with a loved one
Aromatherapy
Tapping
Stretching
Walking
Yoga
Listen to music
Other
Lying on floor
Weighted blanket
Hammock
Massage/Self-Massage
Body Swings
Bath/hot tub
Use a heating pad